Practical Tips to Prevent Suicide:

Suicide is a complex and deeply troubling issue that affects individuals, families, and communities worldwide. While it's essential to remember that preventing suicide often requires professional help and support, there are practical steps everyone can take to create a more compassionate and supportive environment by fostering a culture of empathy and understanding.

One of the first steps in preventing suicide is being aware of and recognizing the warning signs. These changes may be subtle and can include sudden changes in behavior, withdrawal from friends and family, talking about feeling hopeless or trapped, or giving away personal belongings. Being mindful, paying attention, and taking these signs seriously may very well save someone’s life. If someone you care about is struggling, reach out and ask how they are feeling.

When someone is in crisis, they need a non-judgmental, empathetic ear. Encourage open and honest communication by actively listening without interrupting or offering immediate solutions. Allow them to express their feelings and thoughts without fear of judgment or criticism. Simply being there and showing you care can make a significant difference.

It's a common misconception that asking someone about suicide will plant the idea in their mind. In reality, asking directly about suicidal thoughts can provide a safe space for them to talk about their feelings and potentially seek help. Below are examples of how you might start the conversation:

• Are you thinking about hurting yourself?
• Have you thought about suicide?
• Do you have a plan for your suicide?

What to do if you suspect someone is struggling with wanting to end their life:

• If you feel you cannot ask this person to seek help, take steps to alert the proper people. This is the most important step – if you do nothing else, make sure this person either seeks help or that you have alerted someone who can help them.
• Express your worry about them. Communicating things like-
  • Please don’t hurt yourself,”
  • “I don’t want you to kill yourself; I would miss you terribly,”
  • “My life would be less full without you,”
  • “I am here for you.”
• Listen to the person without judging.
• Consider sending a card or written message that lets that person know you are thinking of them.
• If you believe that a person is at immediate risk of hurting themselves or others, call 911 immediately.
• Act on your instincts. If you’re even slightly worried about someone being an immediate danger to themselves or others, act.

What not to do if you suspect someone is struggling with wanting to end their life:

• Don’t say things like_
  • “I know how you feel.”
  • “Get over it.”
  • “Be thankful for what you have and realize other people have it worse than you do.”
• Do not ignore the warning signs.
• Do not keep it a secret.

Let the person know that you are there for them and offer your support. Sometimes, just knowing they have someone in their corner can provide immense comfort and hope.

If you are aware that someone is at risk of suicide, take steps to remove access to lethal means, such as firearms, prescription medications, or other potentially harmful objects. This can help reduce the immediate risk while they seek help and support.

Encourage the person to seek professional help and offer to help find resources that might help them. After the initial crisis has passed, continue to stay connected with regular check-ins, and provide ongoing emotional support, which may help them feel less isolated.

Recovery from suicidal thoughts is a process that takes time. Be patient with the person and with yourself. Healing is not linear, and setbacks may occur. Your continued support and understanding are essential.

Preventing suicide is a collective responsibility that requires the support of friends, family, and communities. By being aware of the warning signs, offering a non-judgmental ear, and encouraging professional help, we can make a positive impact on the lives of those in crisis. Together, we can create a world where suicide is less common and where hope and help are always within reach.

If you or someone you know is experiencing suicidal thoughts, please don't hesitate to reach out to Compassionate Psychiatry Services (CPS) to schedule an appointment with a specialized therapist. Our objective is to ensure that individuals, friends, and families have access to the essential resources for discussing suicide prevention and seeking assistance.